JIT compilation about flashinfer

[Qubitium]

For reference the following CI command on main will compile in 142minutes on a 32 core Zen3 4GHZ server container.

# time FLASHINFER_BUILD_VERSION="999.0.4+cu124torch2.3_gpPadded8_v4_arch8x" FLASHINFER_GROUP_SIZES="1,4,5,6,7,8"  TORCH_CUDA_ARCH_LIST="8.0 8.9" python -m build --no-isolation

real    141m49.680s
user    2389m59.725s
sys     200m31.997s

Without flashinfer_jit the only way to speed up flashinfer whl compilation to reasonable timeframe is to lock group_size to only 1 value needed by the intended model as that will cut down compilation steps/time by ~8x in my tests.

Changing TORCH_CUDA_ARCH_LIST doesn't have much impact on speed.