Support deadlines with the grpc-timeout header about tonic

[ParkMyCar]

I think this would be pretty interesting to build, if no one else is already working on it, I can try to put up a PR in a bit?

Aside from timeouts, there's also cancelation. Is there a story around this yet in tonic?

[Sushisource]

Huge +1 here. In particular I need support for setting them on the client. Adding them manually appears to not work, since it looks like all the GRPC_RESERVED_HEADERS are silently stripped (which isn't so fun) as mentioned in #516. If there's anything I can do to help @LucioFranco I am happy to do so.

[LucioFranco]

Hi Yes, this should be possible by implementing a custom service layer that reads the initial headers and wraps its inner future with a timeout.

[LucioFranco]

I think the right method would be to create a version of https://github.com/tower-rs/tower/tree/master/tower/src/timeout that gets the timeout from a header rather than a static value.

[Maher4Ever]

@LucioFranco Hi, is there an update regarding cancellation support in tonic?

[LucioFranco]

No updates from my end yet, its easy to support cancellation by dropping the task but we currently do not parse the headers for a timeout automatically.

[liufuyang]

I feel I need to set deadline or timeout on client as well, otherwise my Rust client cannot talk to our Java gRPC servers as they are build to require having deadline specified.